How can you become sucessful in every encounter?

Never let a problem become an excuse, put your problem in proper perspective
What is the secret ingredient of successful people that enable them to succeed?
Why do they win when others lose?
Why do they sear when others sink?
The answer is very simple its all in how they perceive their problems. They look at problem realistically and practically. They understand the six principles that pertain to all problems.
What are these principles?
If you know them, understood them and practices them, would you, too be a winner , a survivor? you bet? here they are Listen carefully and adopt them as your own.

1.Every living human being has problems.
What is your problem? Are you unemployed> If you're an impossibility thinker you probably think that a job would solve all your problems.
Nobody is free from problems. A problem free life is an illusion a mirage in the desert it is dangerously deceptive perception, which can mislead, blind and distract . To purpose a problem free life is to run after an elusive fantasy; it is a waste of mental and physical energies. Every living human person has problems .Accept that fact and move on to the second principle.
2. Every problem has a limited life span.
Every mountain has a peak. Every valley has its low point. Life has its ups and downs, its peaks and its valleys. No one is up all the time, nor are they down all the time. Problems do end. they do go away they are all resolved in time.
3.Every problem holds positive possibilities.
I t is the glory of God to conceal a thing. Every problem contains secret ingredients of some creative potential either for yourself or some else.
There are two sides to every coin.
What may be a problem to some one can be a profitable business for others.
Every problems holds possibilities for some willing to look for them.
4.Every problem Will change you .
Problems never leave us the way they found us. Every person is effected by the problems. No one emerges from a problem untouched by problems.
5.You can choose what your problem will do to you
You may not be able to control the problems but you can compose your response. You can turn your pain into profanity or into poetry. the choice is up to you. The choice is up to you. You may not have chosen your tough time, but you can choose how you will react to it.
when you control your reaction to the seemingly uncontrollable problems of life, then in fact you do control the problems effect only you. Your reaction to the problem is the last word!
That's the bottom line. what will you let this problem do to you?
It can make you tender or tough. It can make you better or bitter. It all depends on you.
6.There is a negative and a positive reaction to every problem.
In the final analysis the taught people who survive the tough times do so because they 'll chosen to react positively to their predicament. This is not always as easy as it sounds.
When you can't solve the problem manage it.
Twelve principles for Managing Problems positively
If you have a problem today any problem, I can help you if you'll let me. I offer to you the principles.
1.Don't Underestimate.
Don't underestimate the problem or your potential power to cope with it creativity! Unquestionably many problems are never resolved or managed effectively because they are not taken seriously enough.
2.Don't exaggerate
Instead of underestimating the problem, your instinctive reaction is to exaggerate it. The one battle most people lose is the battle over the fear of failure, try start begin and you'll be assured. You won the first round.
3. Don't wait
There is a time and place for patience. After you have breed every avenue possible and have planted as many seeds of solutions as you can . Patience is not virtue if you sit back and wait for your problems to solve itself.
4.Don't aggravate
We have the power to make any problem better or worse. We do this when we react positively or negatively. The Normal reaction would be to feel threatened by the problem, Threatened people become angry people. Fearful people reflect hatred. Hatred and anger only aggravate the problem they are not positive reactions. They will not help solve the problem.
5. Illuminate
I illuminate your mind. Get smart and then get smarter/ Ask yourself some questions.
6. Motivate
when you consider all of the positive reactions, you will be motivated to positive action
7.Bait
Need a job? Go to where the jobs are and then throw out the bait. Put in your application. Put ads in the paper. Let people know you are available.

8.Sublimate
Every problem , even yours is loaded with possibilities. you can turn your mountain into a gold mine. try "possibilities". Be live that every time one door close another will open. Sublimate your problem. That means believing that every adversity holds with in it the seeds of an undeveloped possibility.
10Now Dedicate
Most people fail , not because they lack intelligent, ability opportunity, or talent, but because they haven't given their problem all they have got.
Any one can succeed if he can get enthusiastic about life . even when life seems empty. Doors will open to the enthusiastic person first.
11. communicate.
manage your problem by remembering that often times the solution lies in help from other source. Do you need help Then ask for it. Don't be too proud to tell people you need help.
12.insulate
Don't isolate yourself from help but do insulate yourself from negative forces and negative personalities.
Maintain a positive mental attitude becomes a near impossible task if we allow ourselves to be bombarded by the negative tough ts that constantly. Surround as
Gods delays
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Gods denials