who is there to help you?

You are unique.Every human being has a "duty to shine".
If you are in a running race who help you to win the race and how much he can?
If you are suffering from fever who will help you and how?
Nobody can harm or make you happy without your permission.

Charity is great but the moment you say it is all you run the risk of running into materialistic.
We reap what we sow. We are the makers of our own fate .None else has the blame, none has the praise.
We have to go back to philosophy to treat things as they are.We are suffering from our own actions.
It is not the fault of the fate what we do is our own fault nothing else. Why should fate be blamed?
Be independent learn to form independent judgements.
First of all you have to lift yourselves. No body can help you.